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I'm upset that he's emailing other women! How do I bring this up with him?

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Question - (19 May 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 May 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *rrwheart writes:

im 23yrs old, i have been with my boyfriend almost 5yrs now, and im afraid he is seeing other women,or at least talking to them over emails, maybe even recieving naked pictures from them. i have found phone numbers with names of girls right next to them. in some occasions i have told him that i had a dream of him a another girl, and gave him the name i "dreamed" with, only to find that he denies knowing anyone with such name/names. i recently found a picture of his ex from 7 yrs ago,on his computer. it was hidden in a file, and it looks recent, also i dont see why he should have a recent picture of his ex on a computer he purchased less than 2 yrs ago, while hes been with me. i have not mentioned anything to him about my suspicions, how should i go about this? am i correct to feel upset and on the verge of wanting to end things with him?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010):

yes, you have the right to feel upset, if what you believe is also the truth. best way is to ask him "if" he is keeping in touch with other women in a sexual way? tell him you saw these pics and it really disturbs you. let him explain and then you decide.

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