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writes:I'm totally psyching myself out of this relationship, why?!?!?Divorced w kids - dating a wonderful man who seems to truly enjoy being BF/GF - 4 mos relationship. The word "love" has not been mentioned by either one of us. I feel it but I'm ambivalent to say it before he does.He knows I like him so has that screwed everything up? The more I read about the way the male mind works, I gather if you like them they're turned off. I'm so confused!! I'm suppose to be scarce and appear too busy for him from what I read. How the heck does anyone get together other than for s e x nowadays? What do I do? Nothing is what they say. I don't want a relationship like that. I want to be loved and love back. HELP! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2011): Check out Christain Carters 'Catch him and keep him' online and sign up for his e-mails..He gives some sound advice...Relationships isnt about playing games but building your self esteem, and growing and sustaining a connection with your partner....You have to learn to be the best you and a good man will see that...Of course being smothering, clingy, needy, paranoid, manipulative and control is a huge turn off...Think connection and genuine love
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