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writes: Ive never had a boyfreind and Im 13 Im so afraid Im ugly. Even if I did have one I wouldnt be able to tell my parents they dont trust me. Pleas help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (9 April 2006):
 its nice to read about some people having happy endings
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (5 April 2006):
 That absolutely not true you must beleive in your slef and love your self. don't listnbe to what other people think or say about you. Any one can have a boy friend. confidence is an important if you beive in your slef love your self more that will shine through and you could have any boyfriend you wnat
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reader, john_lover +, writes (5 April 2006):
john_lover is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for your help everyone, I now have a boyfreind! He is great and I love him with all of my heart! Im happy except that I still cant tell my parents about him....Expecially since he is almost 15....Im just kind of afraid Im to outgoing, talkitive, outspoken, and loud! Im still very happy though...Thanks!
Sincerly, ~*~*Young and in love~*~*~
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2006): Do not feel bad at all girl. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 17 years old. Everyone is beatiful in their own way...and honestly...looks are not always the reason girls have boyfriends...some guys actually look for way more than that...maybe you are not outgoing? quiet?...an introvert...put a smile on your face...a smile can affect millions...show your beautiful smile off...guys love to see a happy girl full of laughter!!! And you have many many MANY yeaRS ahead of you for a boyfriend....
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (1 April 2006):
girl your 13 you havent even began puberty yet, you just at the begin of you development. i know you see you friend begin to change in there looks but in time you will too. plus you shouldnt worry about having a boyfriend you should be out with your friend having a good time. not stressing about guys there bare time for that. just enjoy your youth dont rush yourself.
if you want your parents to trust you just be honest no matter how terrible it is. its the best thing in th long runn.
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reader, tux  +, writes (27 March 2006):
 Well first I will say this. You are only 13 and have many years ahead of you to have boyfriends. Boyfriends/girlfriends can come and go. Perhaps you should try to concentrate on your friends some more and let the rest work itself out.
It's pretty common for people to be self-conscious of their looks. Don't worry too much about it. As you will learn, people do have different definitions of beautiful. Don't rely on the magazines to define it for you, you're setting yourself up for failure if you do, both in how you feel about yourself and as well as others.
As for your parents, What have you done to make them not trust you? I really doubt that would be the true reason though. My guess they'd have a better reason not to trust the guys you have as your boyfriend more than them not trusting you. They want you to grow up as a lovely woman and don't want to see that ruined by having you end up getting pregnant at 13. You still have a long way to go. You might not think that way, but you have a long road ahead. I've been there myself.
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