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I'm too shy to ask but I want oral sex

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Question - (11 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2009)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

iam married from past two years and have a lil boy..right from my marriage my husband has never done oral on me although i have done almost everytime.im too shy to ask for it but really want it too...dont know how to deal !!

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A male reader, infamous United States +, writes (11 July 2009):

well when the moment strikes and the time is right, just talk to him about it. ask him if he wants to experiment a little or try something new. dont tell him he should or has to or anything, just put the idea in his head. if he's not to sure about it just let him think about it for a while. you could tell him it would be a major turn on if he did oral, because usually when guys hear somthing that arouses their girl they are more likely to do it because they want to please them. when my gf asked me to try it i was unsure but when i finally did i loved doing it, now i do it on almost a daily basis :)

so good luck to ya.

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A female reader, Tarianna Jamaica +, writes (11 July 2009):

Tarianna agony auntwell its your husband and in a marriage I think you shouldn't be shy or intimidated to ask your partner for things especailly sexually things...however....you could like one night or something playfully ask him if he has a problem with perfroming oral sex ona woman namely you or find someways of testing him.....asking him without exactly asking...it doesn't necessarily have to be in the act or anything just ask him casually...with my sitituation thats what I did with my guy playfully ask if he is into doing oral sex on women and at first he said he's not sure and though it took a while...he srated askingme to make him do it....I dont know if thats the same situation with you or if it would give the same esults but anyways...I wish you all the best and that the results are favourable

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009):

Tell your partner in honesty with whom you shouldnt be shy that youd like it, after maybe you "do the deed" say something like, "id like that too :D" or something creative if you dont want to say it outright

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