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writes: Hello everyone hope I can get some good advice to this!Basically I have been going out with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and we've been close even though I don't find her the prettiest girl in the world. She went on a holiday for a week with some of her friends. All of the time she was away I did not really miss her. Once or twice I wanted to see her but it was mainly because I was feeling down and wanted comfort.When she's been away I've spent more time talking to other females, one of whom is her sister and one of whom is her friend. Her friend I used to be good friends with but have drifted apart due to not talking much recently - but now I talk to her again I miss her company a lot.When I have been talking to her sister I find she has more in common with me than my girlfriend, and I find both of these more attractive than my actual girlfriend.I really am not sure what to do - I do not feel that close to my girlfriend recently and I have found myself thinking about other girls over her.Please help =( Reply to this Question
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reader, jack23 +, writes (27 October 2006):
 I expect you feel this way because you want what you cant have, this is a very common feeling. Altho these other girls are attractive the danger of the situation is what makes them appealing.
You just need to ignore these feelings and concentrate on your girlfriend. If you dont feel close to your girlfriend then maybe you both need to do more things together to feel closer, or just do things that would make you closer, such as hugging and kissing, if this is no already a regular thing.
Its all in your head mate, really think about it.
Hope this helps :)
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