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writes:hi !I have had a boyfriend for the past 6 months and still counting... I have had a few problems before with him! it is basically that whenever we wanted to do something physical it has never happened... and both of us regret it.. I am very scared that i will lose him! i really dont know what to do! yesterday when talking to him he told me tht i am not the same. and i asked if i want to break up! i asked him if he wanted to and we dont know what to do now.. i really love him! Please advice me... Reply to this Question
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reader, FluffyPie  +, writes (21 August 2010):
 You're very young, and, indeed, at this age, losses are real deathblows, but you have a life awaiting for you, and losing this guy just because you couldn't have sex with him it's not the end of the world. If you feel that something's coming in your way, whenever you guys are physically close and on the verge to get laid, means you're not ready and if you do it now, you might feel sorry after. Just enjoy your innocence and don't coordinate your life according to others' feelings.Good luck in making the right decision.
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reader, Odds +, writes (21 August 2010):
 Well, the age of consent in India is 16, if google is to be believed. You really ought to wait - until marriage if possible. However, it's your decision, ultimately.
Guys your age really, really want sex, so going without is tough for him. He may interpret the lack of sex as a sign you are not interested.
Decide as soon as possible whether or not you want to have sex with him. Then follow through. If you decide to do it, do it after your next date. If you decide not to, tell him you want to wait until marriage. Either way, stick to your decision, and remember that losing him is not the worst thing that could happen.
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