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writes:im 15 (nearly 16) and i went to a party where one of my best friend(male) was aand we all got really drunk and then we had sex... i thought nothing else of it because i knew we used protection. about a month later i ate my breakfast and then suddenly felt really il and stated being sick.. i didnt think anything of it until my aunty joked that i could be. that night i was sick again and my stomach was in agony, i honestly thought my appendix had erupted. now if i am, im not with the potential father and i dont think he'd care anyway coz hes like that. Im DREDING telling my parents, i really dont know what to do :( please help!
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reader, WhateverMovesThee  +, writes (12 September 2010):
 Take a test before anything, could be a bug or the result of stress. So be sure you are pregnant before you tell ur folks. And also, I'd be careful with the drinking. Worse things than a pregnacy can happen next time...you're young, it's ok to have fun, but learn your limits. You had sex with a guy who wouldn't have cared less about you or your baby...before you have sex with someone, you should make sure they're honorable, stand-up guys who do the right thing, guys who respect and won't abandon you in a bad situation. Maybe I sound old-fashioned but save sex for people you love and who love you. Good luck...
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reader, Miss Rain +, writes (12 September 2010):
i think you should tell your doctor whats happened. They'll give you a pregnancy test so you'l find out whats wrong with you. if you are tell your parents asap so they can help you make a decision about what you're going to do. if you decide on abortion the nhs gives them up until you're 12 weeks, but dont let them make you do anything you don't want to. good luck x
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reader, young_and_foolish  +, writes (12 September 2010):
yeah I'm with Jmtmj, don't freak out just YET!
I had a pregnancy scare a long time ago, and the stress of thinking I was pregnant could of been the cause of why I was so late..
Just relax and buy a pregnancy test if you're in doubt...
next time I would suggest keeping a calendar for your specific cycle.. so at least your worry could have come from a slightly more calculated conclusion..
Hope you're NOT pregnant.
and if you are, do not settle for a boy not caring. I'm so tired of seeing girls left to do it ALONE!
go to his mother and speak to her directly. it takes TWO to make a baby, dear.
GOOD LUCK!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2010): Are you 100% sure that you used protection? If you did then there might be something else wrong with you. Get a test done and you'll know. That wasn't very responsible of you doing what you did, I'm not judging you or anything, I'm just saying that at your age it isn't right. Keep that in mind next time you go to a party. You don't have to get drunk to have fun and you should control yourself a bit better. I'm sure you got the fright of a lifetime, but again I think that it's something else, if you used a condom you are safe. Go to a doctor and see what he thinks. Good luck and next time think twice.
NightFairy
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (12 September 2010):
 Go to the doctors or buy a pregnancy test before you even consider telling your parents you could be pregnant...
If you used protection then there's a good chance that you aren't pregnant. You could just be paranoid because of what your aunty said as a joke.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2010): Do you know for sure that you are pregnant? It sounds like you threw up and freaked out. Have you missed your period? Bought a pregnancy test? By the test and find out for sure.
If you are pregnant tell your parents, tell the father, tell his parents and figure out how to handle this. Who you want involved and not involved.
No need to tell your parents until you know for sure though. Oh and if you aren't pregnant I recommend getting on birth control to avoid futhur scares. Let us know!!
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