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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi,I am really worried that no one will ever fall in love with me again and i wont get the family and happy marriage that i have always dreamt of!I have had one successful relationship that lasted two and a half years but we broke up in august 2007, i have had some interest since than from men but i am not always interested in them and i am worried i never will be again.I am fairly attractive, people say i look like betty boop and the girl from primeval (hannah spearitt)!What if i end up alone!!!???? eeeek!
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reader, lifecycle +, writes (2 March 2008):
Hey, I am also 21 and feel very similar. I just broke up from a long term relationship of nearly 4 years. It breaks me up inside because I thought we had a future etc together and that she was "the one" and all the usual feelings that you get with your first love. My canvas which had us moving out in a couple of years, getting a better job and a nicer car, have been taken away. Or have they? Only the moving out bit was dependant on her, so my advice is to move on and focus on YOU right now. Get a hobby, improve your job, buy yourself some new cloths, and they rest will come when you least expect it.Oh, and if you look like hannah spearitt, gimme a msg! :) xTake care
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2008): you are at the oldest 21 - and you're worrying if you'll end up alone? hun, come one, you are still so young, you can't expect to have everything planned out already!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2008): You're very young. You may still feel bad about the breakup since it was only 6 months ago. You were in a relationship for 2 and a half years. That's a lot for someone so young. You may not realize it, but you're still in the process of moving on.It takes time. What you feel now is only a sign that you're not ready to start dating again. But take heart, this feeling will fade with time. You will find a partner who'll make your dreams come true one day. But you're still young. Enjoy your life. Best wishes! :)
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reader, lil k8ykinz +, writes (2 March 2008):
 dont worry i think there probs some one out there for u,its just u havent found them yet. i belive theres some one for every one. so dont put urself down and just hold ur head up high and u will find some one.
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reader, Transcowboy  +, writes (2 March 2008):
 you will not end up alone, you are still very young and will find the right person, i would stop worrying about it. It will happen. I was like that when i was your age, and with time and age you understand that things happen when they do. Don't rush into something for the wrong reasons.
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