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writes: My gf and I are ready to make out. I have done it before and I'm entirely comfortable with it. She has never done it before and she claims she is ready. What is a good and pleasant way I can approach this situation? If possible I would like detailed advice =D thanks a ton Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): The same thing just a little diffrent happens to me to, i have made out with another girl but my new girlfriends hasnt, she says shes ready but whenever we are alone, like we were once behind a building, i just gets akward and we kiss a few times but it never really goes any further. I guess... Just do it man
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2007): this happened with me 2. spend a good evening with her(friends house,dinner,movie,or her house away or no parents.) keep close to her (holding hands, arm around shoulder or waist, or hugs). then later, put your forehead on hers. stare into her eyes and then kiss her. kiss multiple times then stop. if she kisses you back or leans forward, grenn light to make out. if she looks away shocked or doesn't look at you for a period of time STOP!.
tips to know if she wants to make out.
1. looks into your eyes
2. looks at your lips
3.touches your chest instead of arm
4. wets or licks lips
5. smiles (teeth showing)
hopes this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2006): Go to movies with her give her light kisses on the cheek, then later on when you know it is time (you have to be confident)It cannot just be a peck it has to be like a long kiss and then slowly not fast put your tongue in her mouth. She will get the idea.
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (4 July 2006):
 Take it slow - lots of foreplay to make certain she is in the mood. You may need some KY jelly to ease lubrication, as it could very well be painful. I agree with 'helpful girl', make it nice and romantic so that it will be something special to remember the rest of her life as a pleasant thing. Make an occasion of it, and talk about it beforehand, discuss the fact that a sense of humour is essential and give one another 'permission to laugh' as sometimes something funny happens and if one of you laughs at the wrong time it could be misconstrued and wreck the mood if you take it the wrong way!
Just be relaxed and comfortable and make certain that she is happy every step of the way. Some soothing, gentle romantic music is nice too - (and disguises any noises she may find embarrassing at first!) Yes, and DEFINITELY condoms! Have a great relationship - you sound like a sensitive and caring lover, so it won't be too difficult I'm sure!
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (4 July 2006):
 Well me being a girl i think you should ask your girlfriend if she is totally 100%positive she wants to. make it romantic e.g candel's,wine,champaine(for after) dont do it while your both drunk not romantic. Then just really basic steps are gentle thats really it you dont really want to be rough with the first time(ouch) you make all of the moves and ask in between if she's ok, she may be in pain for a while but it will ease off. Try the misonarie style for the first time dont swap the moves. If she decides at any time she doesnt want any more accept it as it is very painfull the first time. Tell her to relax if she seems tense as being tense does make it hurt more, Oh and dont forget the comdoms or wot ever your going to use. Any more questions you can come back and ask me if you want. Hope ive helped you a little.
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