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writes:i have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half we live together and i am pregnant with him. i dont think i have ever trusted him even though i wish i could because i truly love him but hes always on his phone and out but he has a wide circle of friends and had a busy life before i got with him. lately he stays up all night by himself and ive just found out hes watching porn, he has his own account on a website so he can view it and some of the things on it worry me as you can have live "sex" and meet up with people or even chat is he innocently looking at it or should i be worried he may want to/cheat?
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reader, YourDestiny11  +, writes (14 October 2009):
 Well for one you cant have a relationship without trust! If he knows you dont trust him and that you think he might cheat hes going to say screw it and actually do it because what has he got to lose...nothing because you already think that! It doesnt sound like he has given you a reason not to trust him yet...alot of guys hide watching porn from their girlfriends...it doesnt mean they are cheating! Now the live sex and all that is weird and maybe something to worry about, i would make him delete them asap! You need to put a stop to him going out all the time! Im sorry to say this hun but it doesnt sound like your relationship is going to work, which is horrible because your going to be having a baby together! You need to sit down with him and talk and tell him how you feel! If he doesnt start changing you need to leave him...that will wake him up hopefully! He also might change after your baby is born and try harder! So just try talking with him and see where that will take you! Good luck!
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