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writes: I am thirty and met this Guy last year in January. He started showing interest later in June then he slowed down. He left to antoher city this year like 600km away from where I stay. Funny I can't stop thinking about him. I want to move on and I don't know if there is hope. I can't stop thinking about him!!!!!Please somebody help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2007): well ive read your problem but i bet by now your over him and maybe even met somebody else with a bit of luck. obsession is a terrible feeling because it takes over everything. luckily for you he was not around for you to do something daft. but if he was around the best thing to do is remove yourself from the situation. and get a real relationship.
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (30 August 2006):
 well i think the reason you are feeling obsessed with this guy is because you want to move on but yet you are not trying. instead of mopeing around thinking about this guy that clearly your never going to be with get out there with your mates or who ever and go for a drink and go man hunting, that doesnt mean your friends have to be single to go out with you it just means they cant man hunt for them selfs but they can man hunt for you. your find once you do find a man it will help you alot. i know you feel like your obsessed at the moment but give it time you will feel better and it will help more not seeing him which you wont be as his moved to another city. my last advice to you time is really a healer.
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reader, bonym +, writes (30 August 2006):
 Sweetie, what can I say, I know how you feel but you cant keep torturing yourself. Sometimes some things maybe are not meant to be, I mean take me for example, for ages I couldnt accept that this man I was besotted with is married, I was like NO NO NO! Its not fair, but as each day went by, I accepted that I was not going to ever be with him, and being with him in my imagination is far better!! Its happened loads of times to me, but I get over it eventually. Trust me babes, dont torture yourself. xXx
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