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I'm not very tight down there! I'm worried guys dont like it...

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Question - (27 August 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi. I am worried. I am sorry if this is too graphic but i feel my vagina is looser than it should be. I've felt a bit embarrased by it. It is far from tight and i am worried men do not like it. I know i can't do anything about it but i feel it is different.

Please let my mind at rest.

Wishes. X

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007):

hi,

as a guy, what i can say is dont worry about whether your vagina is looser than it should be or not, because this isnt really much of an issue, i have had sex with women with different degree of looseness in the vagina and i find that it really didnt matter, the thing is that most girls would think that guys only like girls with big busts and tight vaginas, that do not apply to everyone.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007):

There are physiotherapists that specialise in this area. They will give you an ultrasound and get you doing some pelvic floor (kegal) exercises, they make sure you are doing them properly and give you a programme to follow. I had a problem down there, after having 4 kids mind you, and ended up having surgery to get everything back to where it was suppose to be! Things are good now. I know it is embarrassing but speak to your doctor about it. You say there is nothing you can do about it, trust me, there is.

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A male reader, duce00 United States +, writes (28 August 2007):

duce00 agony auntLook into the kegal exercise. It helps to tighten things up down there. I had a gf that did it and I can say it worked.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007):

Yeah I used to feel the same way you do. Usually I have a bf for a long time and when I do I get loose. But I always go through a LOOOOONG period of being single (and I don't do the one niters) so I am sexless for a long time.

The last time I think (this is embarrasing) I went about over three years (I might have had sex 4 times in those 3 years).

And when I met my bf. I could have been a virgin for all he knew. I was so tight that the first few times we did it he was done in seconds.

But after a few months with my bf I could already feel it looser and looser.

It will shrink again. But the only way is through abstinence.

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A female reader, Helen Help! :) United Kingdom +, writes (27 August 2007):

Helen Help! :) agony auntHi ya there is a technique women use to tighten there vagina muscles all you do is squeeze (its like clenching your bum cheeks) and release and do this for 10 minuites a day ive heard it works never tried it tho :S good luck give it a try cant hurt can it :)

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