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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I just split up with my girlfriend and could do with some perspective. She told me she only loves me as a friend and that her feelings for me have changed [over the course of our 2 month relationship]. For a while now she hasn't wanted to have sex with me, I have a 6 inch penis, and don't think i ever really satisfied her. She used to 'orgasm' within two minutes of sleeping together, is this normal? I'm not very good at dealing with rejection and don't really know what to think at the moment.
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (13 June 2008):
 Hello,
Best way is to go cold turkey. Just don't contact anymore. If you see her, just be formal polite. Time is the healer here! Hannah xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHmm, i was really drunk yesterday and went to meet her after work and told her how much i loved her. She said she loves me and was just angry. But she still doesnt want to come and see me.
How do i go about getting over her? It just seems impossible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): There isn't any such thing as 'normal' but it sounds like you did satisfy her sexually if she had an orgasm so quickly.None of us likes to feel rejected but remember there are two of you here and it may be that it is nothing about you, more about her. You seem to imagine it is the sex but you don't really know. Tell her you'd find it useful to know what made her feelings change. I know that's not easy but it will give you insight for the future.
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (11 June 2008):
Hi,
Forget about your penis, that is nothing to do with things. Penis size etc is all perfect.
She is just not into you any more and that's that. There may be a lot of reasons for her leaving the relationship, but please don't ponder about orgasms and bodies. The friends part is probably just a polite way out. Don't worry, head up and remember that you did nothing wrong. It may be wrong time, place etc but that's her loss. Let some other lucky girl enjoy your personality and love! Hannah xx
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