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writes: i met this guy a year ago and since then we have become really good friends we speak regulary on the phone and internet i just don't know how he feels as sometimes he says that we should be together and other times im not sure of what he wants i have explained that if anything happened that it should be taken slowly and not rushed in i just want to know am i wasting my time on this guy i hope not as i really do care for him Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): iv been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we are constantly arguing, being with someone everyday does get boring and sad, i suppose you are doing the right thing, when u see each other after a few days/weeks, u love being with them and have lots to say, let time take its tole, and if things dont change your wasting ur time, try new and diffrent things when u meet him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2006): Friendship is the best basis for a romantic relationship, if you like him, enjoy his company and he is a good friend to you, then no, you are not wasting your time, you have a good friend.
Generally, relationships that start off slow last the longest, but he may be afraid to risk your friendship for a romance because if it fails, so will your friendship.
So you have to ask yourself is this love or is this just attachment due to familiarity, am I willing to take things to a new level just to find out? If the answer is yes, then by all means take that risk, because without risk there will be no romance!
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