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writes: Dear Cupid, My parents have just stopped me from going out with my boyfriend because of a family feud and i have been going out with him for 2 years. i am 16 and he is 21 and i am scared that he is not going to wait until im 18 so that we could go out again. please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, vivi +, writes (6 January 2006):
hun think about you've been with this guy for 2 years. do you love him? then to hell with what the fight is about tell your parents that this is your life they cant tell you who to love and ask them if there parents would have stopped them from seeing eachother. then explain to them that the fight is not with him and to grow up and act like the adults they are and to set a better example for there children. ask them do they really think theyre doing the right thing by teaching you that a family feud is more important than love. and if they tell you you're too young to know what love is, tell them love is deffinately something you dont give up on and you dont intend on doing so...
i hope this helps and good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2006): Well it might be hard if you don't get to see him or have any contact with him. Maybe there is some way you can talk to your parents on letting you see him talk to your mom if you think she'll be understanding if not try your dad or just give it time maybe if they realize it bothers you that much they'll have a change of heart. If this guy does'nt wait for you than oh well there are so many other men in this world that you'll have no problem having a relationship with you are so young you don't even realize You never no this could be a good thing you should be single enjoying your youth while you can you may look back and thank your parents some day! Good Luck!!
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