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*ngel ron
writes: Hi guysiam 28 years old married with a 3 year old child I haven't had good proper fantasic sex for almost a year and the sex in my marriage has dried up and all the girsl who iam at college keep bullying me about it saying they are having it all the time. Some of them say that I don't sleep around iam more down to earth.I need help I have no lover as nobody is interested I feeel lonely and neglected whilst other women including mums like my slef are having the fun that I should be having.not even the un married fathers are interested in me.Guys I need helpWhat am I going to do guys Reply to this Question
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reader, Country Woman  +, writes (8 May 2006):
 Dear Angel ron
Your very welcome and I hope the advice helps, that is all I can offer I'm afraid.
But I would be interested in knowing how you get on.
Don't feel alone with this or any other problem as this site is all about helping one another and if it helps you to see things in a different light then that must be great as a happy mum and wife is the most important thing right now, not your friends as they come and go but family are always there for us and also the true friends as well.
BFN
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (8 May 2006):
Angel ron is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you country woman for the reposnse you gave me to my question it has really helped I will go along with the sexual counseillingand some of the ideas you suggested
Tghank you very much
Love angel ron
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (7 May 2006):
You say you are married is that right?
All your other friends, do they have 3 year old children?
After having a child we concentrate on our child's needs and not our own so it is only natural after childbirth that we go off sex.
Don't let your friends bully you about sex as this is not helping at all.
Don't be labelled a loose woman by just jumping into bed with the first guy that comes along, value yourself more than that.
Start talking to your husband about your sex life as it seems as though the spice has just gone out of the bedroom but it can easily be brought back in.
Perhaps some sexual counselling would be useful if you can't talk about with each other. Role playing in the bedroom is also good to get you in the mood. Also dressing up in sexy clothing as well.
It is all about setting the mood and perhaps someone having your 3 year old for the weekend so you and your husband can get some quality time together.
You got married for a reason and there must have been love in your relationship when you had your child, it is just about finding it again that's all.
Your friends are not you and not in your situation so listen to your own inner voice and talk with your husband first off.
If things don't improve at home, don't just go out and have meaningless sex as that will stay with you forever.
Talk first if you can and try and get help with discussing the sexual issues and then take it from there.
Best of luck.
BFN
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