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writes:I NEED to hear some inspitational stories.I have decided to leave my bf of nearly 5 years. things have never really been good and after alot of recent soul searching I realise I have no future with him. This is a decision I have put off for a long time now as i havent felt emotionally strong enough to walk away.I really need to hear from people who have been in this situation and are now happy, healthy people.I need to hear from people who have found love and the right personthanx for taking the time to answerx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your replies guys-
it really help to hear other peoples stories.
i think a break is a good suggestion but i dont know if i would be able to. we own a house together and have a young baby and i dont have anywhere else to go so if im going to do it i have to find a new place to live which makes it a permanent thing.
also i think id be too terrified of him having a thing with someoene else and me finding out about it when we got back.
im definatly going to think about this more though because it was something that i hadnt considered.
thanx again
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2007): i no im only 16 but im glad my ex dumped me when he did i wasn't happy i was with him because i didn't want to be alone all my friends were in relationships i didn't want 2 be the odd one out so i stayed but i relaised i wasn't happy with him and if i carried on i would of probably would of had a break down. If you want 2 carry on its your choice if you want to break away or have a break to see if you are much happier without him that can help but don't break up and relaise he is something you want. I feel so much happier without my ex we wanted diiferent things. its now up to you what you want. if you are still searching maybe a break may help
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2007): ok well here's a little of my story. i had been with my boyfriend for about 7 years. since i was 13. i was the one to totally break it off and kick him out of our apartment. dont get me wrong, i was and still am totally in love with him, but he did me wrong and i stood up for myself. but now more than ever he is showing how much he does love and respect me and wants to get his life together so we can have a future but im not even back together with him. honestly though, i believe we're meant for eachother. we treat eachother better now and enjoy actual time together like camping and just hanging out alone. but my question for you is, are you in love with your guy? and what are you hoping for after you break up with him?
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