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I'm in love with my very close cousin.

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Question - (31 July 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2007)
A female South Africa age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Hey Cupid!

I'm in love with my very close cousin. The difficult thing is we live together and something has happened between us (no sex involved tho). He always gives me the excuse that we cousins and shouldn' do what we do but we end up doing it again. I know that he loves me too but scared of family. What should i do?

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A female reader, LauraE United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2007):

First cousins are still legal in some countries, and not in others. But the point is that first cousins would be too close a relationship. It is as genetically close as half brother and sister. If you are this close, you should stop now before it gets more difficult to stop. You are old enough for one of you to move out if necessary.

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A male reader, laki_topalovic Serbia +, writes (31 July 2007):

laki_topalovic agony auntLook, it depends how closely related to you he really is.

If he is one of you're closest relatives (like for example the son of your mother's brother or something like that...) than you shouldn't get involved in a romantic relationship with him. People even wrote laws agains that kind of things :-)

But if you are distant cousins... Like, hardely ever related, then you shouldn't let that eep you in a way of finding true love. Be carreful...

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