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writes: Ok im 20 years of age and i have fallen madly in love with my Business School Teacher's Assente. I mean i know its wrong to try to start a relationship with him during school hours but how do i get to know him outside of school without giving any clues of anything goin on between us? Him and i have talked and he's always staring at me when im not looking and he lookes away when i catch him doing it. He doesn't have a girlfriend. He is fresh out of college and he wants to go to medical school to become a doctor. I just dont know how to get to know him outside of school without making a scene, and i know that he could get fired if there were any clues of us dating. (if it even goes that far) Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, juliagulia  +, writes (15 March 2006):
 If there is a risk of him getting fired or you getting expelled, then I would not pursue this relationship right now. If you are going to be finished with school soon, then try to wait until then to start up a relationship with this man. If you are going to be in school a long time and he is going to still be in his current position for a long time, then I think it is best you try to focus your energies elsewhere. I know it sucks and it sounds like you are both attracted to one another, but there is nothing you can do about it without it causing major problems for one or both of you. If you really like him, then you would do your best not to disrupt his life and career. If he is willing to risk it, then let him come to you so that if things go wrong, you are not to blame for putting him in an awkward position. Good luck!
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