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writes:i am an 18 year old high school student who works as a mechanic i live with my aunt and uncle and i was hired to fix my neighbors car after she drove it into a ditch in an accident and we started bonding while i fixed the engine and after it was fixed i came over frequently and eventually one thing led to another and we kissed and eventually the relationship became sexual. anyway they have been married 4 years and her husband is almost always traveling away on business trips and makes a lot of money and he is also very abusive towards her. i hear them arguing from across the street every night he is home and i feel like i wanna find someway to help her. every time i ask her or try to talk to her about it she brushes it off like nothing and says its not as bad as it seems and says its complicated and she cant leave him. she also begged me to promise that i would never get involved with it. i really dont know who to talk to about it because my aunt and uncle dont know and my friends dont know about us either. i feel extremely angry at him and i love her so much and i want to help her out of it but i dont know how or what to do about the situation
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reader, dirtball +, writes (29 September 2010):
 The only person who can help her is her. If you hear loud arguing and such, you can call the police about a domestic dispute. That's about the extent of what you can do.
Also, I know that you're in love, but be wary of this woman. She is cheating on her husband. Sure he's an asshole, but that doesn't change the fact that she's having improper relations with you. She's using you to get what she isn't in her relationship but refuses to leave her husband.
This will not end well.
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