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writes: i resontly got back together with my ex. but during the time that we weren't together our friend displaded interest in me. At first I didn't like him back and then my feelings toward him grew more, though i didn't let it show. I then got back together with my ex since i had never really lost interest in him. But now i find myself thinking more about our friend then my boyfriend. Should i just give us a little more time and see if my feelings toward the friend fade as my relationship with my boyfriend progress? Or would that be unfair to my boyfriend? I'm traveling right now and feel like not having contact might be part of the problem.
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reader, LotusBlossom  +, writes (1 August 2008):
It sounds like alot going on....too much! As a rule of thumb, it's never a good idea to be in relationships with guys who are friends. It's a sure-fire way to develop a questionable reputation. It might be good for you to spend some time with yourself and your girl friends away from ex's and current boyfriends. Give yourself a chance to honestly sort out your feelings. Take everyone's feelings into consideration so that as few people as possible get hurt. I'm sure you'll be just fine :)
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