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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi.... I really thought that this day would NEVER come around. I have been in a what they call a causel relationship, of course one would think that something more to come of this relationship, its been on now for a year and a half, not a very easy year and a half but somethings were good althought it could have been a done better. We have had a lot of fights and so about 'our' future, although things have come up about me not being in his future plans and that he wants to see me make a success of my own life which is understandable. His ex-wife hurt him so badly i dont think I'll ever be able to get through to him. Now here is the thing, the company i work for, we went on what they call here in sa a bosberaad, where the company is asking its employees for help and what we can do to make this work for the company, it was a 4 day long trip in the bush. I have started developing a soft spot for one of the engineers that has liked me since he has started working here, in the begining of the year. I did not know that until this trip happened. I dont know how to let go of the causel relationship i'm in and i really dont know how to tell the engineer how i feel, thats if i should ever tell him... Emotionally want can i do? Thanx..
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): One point of view, i think if you don't be honest with both of them, then your not likely to ever get anywhere with this situation. The more you worry about it, the bigger a problem it's going to become, and you may even decide to go behind your partners back instead, which will make things more complicated. I think you should just tell your partner that you want out of the relationship, which will be far better than him finding out you are cheating on him.
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