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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi guys. I'm 18 and I have a male friend. We get on well but he's much older. 12 years older in fact with a daughter. I stayed up his one night because he was down and ever since I did my nan has been different towards me. She has made comments about my parents and their relationship. Being raised I was always watching arguements and abuse. Yet my nan seemed to ignore that and actually asked me where i slept while up my friends and now everytime I mention going out she quizzes me. There a lack of trust and some hurtful things have been said about my friend. I've been honest and explained about nans outburst but I think he thinks I agree with her. What do I do? I don't want to lose either of them but I need to know whether nan trusts me. I know she's probably trying to protect me but I can't help thinking why say the things she said. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 July 2012):
 Off course she is trying to protect you. She is probably wondering why a 30 year old man would want a 18 year old girl as a friend? Off course this is going to make her worry for you in case he is taking advantage of you. I don't know this man so I cannot judge if what your nan said about him is true or not, but I think you should sit down and talk with her properly and ask her why she has said the things she has, maybe she has good reason.
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