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I'm having trouble getting over him

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Question - (13 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *achal writes:

dear cupid

My best guy friend Tanner always used to grab my butt, or side. he never tried to make me do something that i didn't want to do. he'd putt his arms around me and pull me close to him. i loved the way he made me feel loved and protected. we're only 15 but i think we might've been in love with each other. but then came my parents. they met him once at this

carnival that a lot of friends and i went to. he was polite and shook my dad's hand, but both of my parents thought he was ugly. (they didn't

tell him that.)well things started going downhill from there. we still liked eachother

a lot and still were friends but we started becoming strangers to each other. ad then within the next 2-3 weeks we were barely even friends. i still love him a lot, and he tells his friends that he's not over

me,either. i've tried to get over him but it's not working. it's been about two months. what should i do and what's your opinion? does he really still love me or is he just missing me as a makeout buddy?

xoxo rachal

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (14 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntDoes it matter to you that this guy may be "ugly" as your parents call it?!

I don't think it does.

I think you should talk to this guy and see how he feels about you, and what he wants from the relationship you two have. If it is only friendship then he may have to lay off the touching your bum etc for a while.

Good luck!

xxxxxx

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A female reader, aunty g Afghanistan +, writes (14 June 2007):

look just get over him if it helps get a few mates round have a sleepover and have a good cry and let it all out then go out for another night band find some one new and better

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A female reader, aunty g Afghanistan +, writes (14 June 2007):

look just egt over him if it helps get a few mates round have a sleepover and have a good cry and let it all out then go out for another night band find some one new and better

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