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writes:So I was seeing this guy for about a year then we both decided to take a break up for a while. We didn't talk for a month and a half. In the beggining I called him a few times to tell him I was sorry but he completely ignored my calls so I decided to leave him be. 7 weeks passed and he FINALLY decided to get back into contact with me. We appologized and he told me he still thinks about me and still cares about me and still loves me. So then he starts talking to me like nothing has changed at all, which totally caught me off guard. He was acting as if we've been together this whole time and we never even broke up. I mean, it is great and all but I'm feeling like emotionally ambushed... I'm in a state of "wow." I was basically at my wits end for 7 weeks feeling completely horrible with out him and now he's back and that is what I've been waiting and hoping and wishing for. Nothing feels like it's changed and it feels like the past 7 weeks was nothing at all and now my life is starting again. But why am I feeling like this? I am extremely happy that he's interested to get back together with me but why now? And why is he acting like nothing has changed? Is that normal for guys to do in situations like this?
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 Yes, I'd be wanting an answer to why he treated you so abysmally for 7 weeks then suddenly has an attitude overhaul! Unfortunately, you could guess your life away but are only going to get a factual answer if you ask him straight out. Who wants to put up with 'what if's? And what if it happens again? I understand that you really like this guy, but don't put yourself through the ringer for him, put yourself first, you were the one who was ignored, you deserve answers! If he's not happy to give you said answers, I'd think really carefully whether you would want to be with him again...
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