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writes: I am 27 years old and have always had boyfriends. However, over the years I have been very curious about what it would be like to sleep with a woman. I dismissed it for a long time as literally just curiosity, however lately I find myself fantasizing about touching and making love to girls I know! I have a boyfriend who I love very much and would never cheat on or do anything to ruin our relationship and I really do enjoy the sex we have. But I can't help these feelings I have. I often find myself masturbating to porn when he is not around. I see some pictures of girls and it makes me really aroused. I never get turned on when looking at pictures of men or even watching guys in porn movies- in fact they actually annoy me or turn me off - moreover I seek out girls and look for porn which shows close ups (if you know what I mean) of women. I either always watch solo women or lesbians and never watch anything with men in it! The other day I got wet looking at a pretty girl in the cafe - I felt ridiculous but i couldn't stop looking at her. I just thought she was really sexy. What does this mean? I get turned on when my partner and I kiss/make love ect- but I still have these desires for wanting to be with women! Am I a lesbian?/bi? I just don't know! I'm so confused! Please help!
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reader, Thisiscrazy  +, writes (22 April 2012):
 Hun your not a lesbian your bicurious and there is nothing wrong with that. Now you love your man and the sex with him right . You don't want to cheat on him . Have you ever thought of telling him how you feel and ask him if you could have the experience with the woman while he is either watching or if your happy to let him join in if he loves you and sees you want to experience it I'm sure there wouldn't be a issue. But be honest with him ok I'm bi I love women they are beautiful I love being with them looking at them is sexy and a huge turn on But I could never go without a real penis sure there not much to look at but there is nothing better then the real warmth and body on body feeling with a man... I hope your man is willing to let you experience this and he will know just how lucky he is
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (22 April 2012):
 Most people are in some level bisexual but because of social constructs they have heterosexual relationships for life. If you decide to stay with your man than try to tame your fantasies as just fantasies. Chances are if you tried a woman it would be just like trying a man the first time as a virgin. No big deal. Do you really think the discovery that you are bisexual would enrich your life so much that you would regret never trying it?
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