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36-40,
*ryinhard4wot
writes:well, I met this girl 3 years ago as we worked together and we got on like a house on fire, flirted all the time but neither of us brought our selves to ask the other one out.but 5 weeks ago through a friend we met up for drinks and had a right laugh but as soon as our friend left we were suddenly all over each other, we stayed out most of the night and the relationship started almost straight away. wen we with each other we get on so well we both love the same things and we both got the same sexual appitite, but l8ly she seems to be traveling abit to see old friends which one of them happens to live with her ex. she always tlks about how much she h8s this ex. and i dont blame her for wot she told me. but she taking this job where we both know there a lad who has been tryin to get with her for a while. she says while laughing tht it will make the job harder with this person flirting all the time as she is not intrested. I know tht this is a young relationship as in christ its only 5 weeks but unlike ever before i keep telling myself its stupid after only 5 weeks but im falling so hard for this girl, I've told her that i cant find a fault with her which i cant, we spoke about how we both wanted to make a go of this relationship, and she seemed as willing as me, but im starting to think tht i may be just a time filler, i constantly feel like this but every now and again she will do somthing or say somthing tht will change my mind but soon the feeling returns tht maybe she is regretting getting with me.I really do think the world of this girl, but i just can't get the feeling out of my head that I'm building up feelings just to be broken down, I know there is no major question in this so anwsers wont really be relevant maybe just outsider thoughts on this situation. thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): Give her the benefit of the doubt. She has said she isn't interested in him. You shouldn't stop her from taking a new job. Let her go for it, and time will tell how much she cares about you.
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