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writes: i'm crazy about this girl who's got a boyfriend. and i know a part of her likes me and is interested in me too, but she's still with her guy. and i don't know what to do. i feel like i should wait to see how they turn out in order to be polite and respectful. but i also want to go ahead and try to kiss her to see what she'd do. or do you think it'd be a good idea to act like i'm not interested anymore and see if she gets upset? how should i go about this? any suggestions would be great. because anything is better than where i'm at right now (sitting around waiting on her). thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (18 October 2006):
 Hi Guy,
You have to decide what is more important to you. Going for what you want OR not breaking up a relationship. That is it. Nothing more. It does not matter what her feeling for you are. You are the one that has to live with the consequences of this decision. Part of being a mature man, is to know who you are, and what your beliefs are. You come across like a boy that needs other peoples permission to take action for your own life. That is not attractive to women at all.
You may choose your actions, but not the consequences of those actions. What is more important to you??? This is not a question anyone can answer for you except yourself.
-Frank B Kermit
Author of Everything Out of her Mouth is a Test: A Man's Guide to the Emotional Needs of Women
www.franktalks.com
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