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writes: Long story short i ended up falling for a guy i had a "casual" thing with and things ended badly. He got back with an ex girlfriend which broke my heart but then me and him ended up carrying on seeing each other (big mistake) and i eventually told him i couldn't see him anymore. So, now he's deployed and he sent me a letter. This is the main part:Hi Sweetie :)How are you? I hope all is well. I just got your letter, thank you so much. I have the worlds biggest grin on my face. You're amazing, i love you! :)*he talks about army stuff*I know, it feels like ages since i last saw you, but in just over 3 months i'm taking you out for a drink-date, not taking no for an answer! How did your date go, btw? Given you're absolutely stunning you must have the guys queuing up!Thanks again for your letter, especially since you stayed up just to write to me. Please send me your picture? Love *his name*I think he's still with his girlfriend, i'm not sure as we haven't been in touch for a while. I DON'T want to go on a date with him while he's with her. Do i just ignore that part when i write back? I'm a bit confused by this letter. Does it just sound like something from a friend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHis response to being dumped? No. We stopped talking a few months before this.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (13 October 2011):
 'I just got your letter, thank you so much' is his response to being dumped? Interesting.
His response sounds, to me, like 'yeah, yeah, whatever, so when are we getting together again?' As if he wasn't even listening.
He is not your friend. His interest in you is purely sexual. You already know he's capable of deception and infidelity so even if he says he's now single, you won't be able to trust him.
Don't respond. Don't try to maintain even a non sexual friendship.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (13 October 2011):
 HHHmmm. This is far from a friendly comment. More of a flirty, hinting at a little jealousy comment.
Write back and ignore that part, or don't write back at all.
I doubt his cheating stripes have vanished while being deployed.
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