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writes: I think in my own mind I know the answer that this could never be anything more than casual but I'll ask it anyway. I've been seeing this guy for a year once a week or couple of weeks, nothing serious just great conversation and comfortable evenings. I've met some of his close friends and alike he has mine. My question is, is there ever a point when a man decides "I want to take this past casual". I'm comfortable with how things are, but I'm reaching a point where i would like more and would love a male opinion before ultimately deciding to move on or stick a little longer.
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reader, Toria +, writes (16 October 2006):
 I think you should be sure in what you are wanting from this casual relationship and once you know the answer you should then go after what you want, if you want more than what he is giving or going to give you will get hurt carrying on this way things are going.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2006): I think being a great friend is foundation for a romantic relationship and he seems to respect you he has introduced you to his friends....you need to create some passion to this relationship and one way is to make yourself a little less available, and to date other men and let him know about it to see if he becomes jealous or afraid you might leave his life, cause some uncretainty in his mind that you are not waiting for him....it seems like a game, but think of it this way, it is human nature to want what you cannot have or have to work at to get...you are already more than half way there to a great relationship, you just need to take action to move it to the next level. I think words won't work with this guy as he already knows you care for him as a friend...don't give up to early if you really want him...good luck!
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reader, shania  +, writes (15 October 2006):
 Has he given you any hints that he might want to take it further? If the answer is no then he probably only see's you as a friend.A year is a long time to get to know someone,and to whether you want to take it further,obviously you do but it does seem that he doesn't.If you want a proper relationship i suggest you look elsewhere.
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