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writes: Hi,Im a 32 year old guy and recently ive noticed something disturbing thats been happening to me. I'll be at the movies or something and I'll say to myself, George Clooney is a good looking bloke or whoever was in the movie at the time. And Im doing it in every day life too. I'll be walking along and I'll see another bloke and I'll say to myself he's a good looking guy. Dont get me wrong, Its nothing sexual, im not checking other men out. Im strongly attracted to women and when I look at girls that I think are good looking I feel it right down to my.........well, you know what! But I dont get that if I see another guy who I think is good looking, I dont feel anything really, its more of an acknowledgement that theres a good looking bloke.Im unsettled by this all the same. I shouldnt even notice if another guy is good looking or not. What does it mean? Or is it harmless and are most guys like this anyway i.e. notice if another bloke is good looking or not? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007): I do it too, I'm not gay, I'm stricly for women, I just do it to know where I stand among other guys, I think it's a good skill to have if you know what guys look good, you can use that to help yourself look more attractive to women.
That's how I see it.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (24 November 2007):
 Hii, all this means is you are completely happy with your sexuality, you have men who would quite happily say all other men are ugly etc.. that is because they are worried other people would think they were gay. There is nothing wrong with you :) you're not doing anything wrong :) I hope i helped, feel free to mail me :) x
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reader, Samutsen  +, writes (24 November 2007):
 It is perfectly OK. We men also compare ourselves with other men and because our male culture we are not supposed to think or say these things and find other men handsome. I think the fact that you are questioning yourself about these inner thoughts of yourself shows how sensitive you are abouit your male hoodç You are 100% percent normal guy.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (24 November 2007):
 Men do know when another man is handsome. They just don't choose to admit it to themselves or talk about it. I think in our older years, men are more secure with themselves and are less afraid to say this type of thing. Women do it all the time about another women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007): Hi Love,
I really dont think this is a problem, you probably did this the one time without a thought then it happened again and now its got to a point where you feel uneasy with yourself... It doesnt make you feel sexual, You love women right you said it the feeling are different....
Your right george clooney is attractive!!! Ive a male friend and when we go for coffee he is quickly eying up the dishy guys for me to get some eye candy and I do it for him with the girls.. We have a great time you would make a great buddy, dont be to hard on yourself its nothing to worry about love TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007): You dont have any reason to worry, all men analyse everyone that they see, even other men. My partner is always acknowledging good looking guys and girls to me and I think it is a good thing that he can appreciate good looks without fancying the person.
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