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writes:I'm bisexual, and my friend knows but she thought she was bi-curious but now she says she's straight, and we play around like stare into eachother eyes and lay in bed together but I try not to touch her sexually. Thing is I'm sexually attracted to her and sometimes she make me super horny and I would love to be with her, but should I just leave it alone? Also she said she sees our friendship as a relationship-relationship like we date or something. What do you think I should do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): I told her but I said I had a crush so yeah and I told her sometimes the crush come back and she said okay, no matter what happens between us I sill love you and always will.
So does that mean she doesn't feel the same?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (28 February 2009):
I think you have to tell her that she is going to really hurt you if she carries on like this.
It might be nice for her to lie in bed with you and be super best friends, but if she doesn't want to be with you then she is leading you on and it's not fair.
Tell her how you feel next time you are in bed and if she doesn't want to be with you then you have to back away from her for a while and try to get over her.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, andrew loves hali +, writes (28 February 2009):
 tell her how you feel. im sure she wont be mean if she doesnt feel the same way back. good luck.
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reader, AlextheOdd +, writes (28 February 2009):
 I would try to tell her how you feel; be like "Hey I know you really aren't into girls that much anymore, but I think I feel something for you, something more then I feel with the rest of my friends" or that such. Or try asking her out to the movies, if she freaks out just say it's not a date just a night out. But if she doesn't mind you asking her out it's probably a good sign that she feels something back. Also make sure you love every inch of her and you understand what you're putting on the line. Being sexually attracted to someone is one thing, but you have to remember you are putting your relationship as a friend on the line. You must accepted her faults and cherish her uniqueness; it's a 50-50 chance that you'll be in a long committed relationship with her in a couple of years so make sure you adore every moment, try new and adventurous things and always be happy for what you have. I hope you two get together & i wish the best of luck. :)
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