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I'm besotted by him.... but he hardly knows I exist! How can I change this?

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Question - (20 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am besotted with this bloke but he doesn't feel the same, how can I get him to notice me and want me or how do I get him out of my head.

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A male reader, PeterPan United States +, writes (20 February 2009):

PeterPan agony auntWell, while Uncle_Phil's idea would definitely work, you could take the less direct approach and just start flirting with him a little bit... show some interest in what he's doing, perhaps ask to tag along (as in trying to create excuses to be around each other more often... and hopefully in more one-on-one situations). Have you suggested after work drinks? ...or the sneaker way -- find out where he's going and be there?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009):

Simple really - you sidle up next to him and whisper in his ear "I'm not wearing any knickers." That will grab his attention like a crocodile does a Wildebeest.

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