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writes:I am in love with a married man.. we work together and started out as friends. this past summer we become really close. he confessed to me that he has been in love with me for the past 2 years. but he is married. but his wife is in mexico. so its not like they are living and see each other everyday. he wants to go back and tell her face to face. but i feel like if he goes back he wont come back to me like he has promised. I know that he is in love with me and I myself am in love with him. he has my whole heart. there is a few people that know about me and him. he doesnt wont to become public to everyone just yet. his parents know about me, but my parents doesnt know yet. my parents love him! when I am not with him I feel so alone. I am competley in love with him! I know people say that it is all wrong but he is so different than any other guy I have ever met.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2011): He's actually taking a step to get divorced, that's MORE than most married men in affairs ever do. Most would tell you no way will they ever leave their wife. At least he is willing to try to leave her (unless he's lying, but let's assume for now he's serious).If he's ready to end things with her, then he will end it with her whether he goes to mexico to tell her face to face, or not. If he goes to mexico and doesn't come back, that means he is not ready to end his relationship with her. Which is good that you know this now. Better than carrying on with him and then later on you find out he's cheating on you, with her. Or that your relationship never develops to its potential because he's not truly over her.either way, be glad that he's going to mexico to see his wife. It will either end with him leaving her, or if he doesn't come back to you then you know it's for the best because it wouldn't have worked out.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 February 2011):
He can be as different as you want him to be - he's still a married man who's cheating for no good reason.
Thing is, unless he gets a divorce, you won't stand a chance. So he needs to sort his marriage out. Now. Let him go speak to her.
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