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writes: I am 20 and have a girlfriend who is 19.However, recently I've started finding a male friend of mine sexy and feel disgusted for having these feelings.I've nothing against homosexuals but I feel disgusted with myself and can't understand why.Matt Reply to this Question
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reader, yoyouyont +, writes (20 April 2006):
you may simply find this guy sexy. I am gay but i have a few female friends i think would get it. They ussually have to be stunning and there are personal connections in a mental way. Is it just a friend who is attractive in mind and body or a general feeling for sexy men. If its the guy then you probably have tendencies that are only stong enogh when its the right person. There are many different places on the sexual spectrum, dont feel disgusted though try and explore because you may miss what makes you happy and trap yourself young.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2006): It sounds like you are starting to have some feeling for members of your own sex and there's nothing wrong with that. you may be gay, or you may be cutrious, or somewhere in the middle. I went through a similar situation around your age and it took a while for me to come to terms with the feelings I was having, mostly because I didn't think I fit into the gay stereotypes I saw aroud me. I still don't fit a stereotype, but I am gay. I'd recommend that you explore you feelings for other males and see how it makes you feel. Just because you aren't typically "gay" doesn't mean that you might not be happier being in relationships with guys. Or, maybe you're just curious. In any event, you owe it to yourself to find out the truth.
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