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writes: Hi, right i really fancie this guy, he is 24 and i am 15... i dont see anything wrong wid the age gap but he has asked me out and i really dont know what to say. he will be my first relationship let alone b/f, but i think that he will get bored of me and try for someone of his own age. Please can you help and tell me if i should say that i will go out with him or that i wont go out with him and please tell my why. i really do love him to bits and he is sooo kind to me! (yes i am gay) Reply to this Question |
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (13 October 2006):
 well i think you should try guys your own age first as expereince is better for you to get involved with older guys. so try going with some one your own age first. unless your really struck on him then go for it just try not to have any kind of sexually ralationship untill your ready! but why not stay freinds for a while first to see ifhe is the kind of man that would get board of you or not.
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reader, sleepysly +, writes (5 October 2006):
 hi i really think that before you deal with a age gap relationship you should first have had a relationship with someone your own age,relationships can come with enough probs age difference is not for you at the moment,find yourself and know your needs.a older man wont see your needs only his own,proberbly cause he thinks he knows what you want when really he doesn't.i am in a age gap thing and i can say its hard.good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006): If he gives you up it will likely be because he's 25 or 26 (and you're 16 or 17), and he wants another 15 (or 14, 13, 12) year old. I know that this will be difficult for you, but terminate this relationship ASAP. You owe it to yourself (remember, when he was 15, you were six).
P.S. Get him a "Chatty Cathy" to keep him company once you've ended your relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2006): what u need to realise wheather your straight or gay is what you are giving up if it be friends family or virginity you have to know that that person means sacrifice. are you going to live the next 60 years in love with that person. this is your first and there will be many after so stop looking for the happy ending it wont happen yet im sorry give yourself time gay or not you may change yor mind. be open and dont just fall for the first one it should be special
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