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I'm 14 and I don't know how to react when a girl flirts with me. Advice?

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Question - (8 March 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 March 2011)
A male United States age 26-29, *ountainguy124 writes:

I need some tips for dating, flirting, and talking to girls I'm fourteen and it's kinda weird. I don't really know what to do when a girl flirts with me. Some suggestions on how to act and flirt with girls please?

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A female reader, Rebeccaa United Kingdom +, writes (9 March 2011):

Rebeccaa agony auntIf you like her then obviously flirt back, dont be nervous! Smile at her give her compliments she will soon realise what a nice person you are and 9 times out of ten she will fancy you.

Good luck! (:

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A female reader, GeeGee255 United States +, writes (8 March 2011):

GeeGee255 agony auntJust smile,

Look her in the eyes and ask her a few questions about herself and what she thinks about ________ (fill in the blank.) Add a few genuine compliments and that should do it.

Good luck!

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A female reader, coolbeans United States +, writes (8 March 2011):

coolbeans agony auntThat's part of being a teen! The excitement of not knowing what's next! Enjoy the ride and just be yourself. It's ok to be nervous when you are around a girl you like. She will feel flattered.

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A female reader, gubbs United States +, writes (8 March 2011):

i am 13 and a girl and i used to have the same problem with boys but all you have to do is chill and act yourself if they like you its because your being yourself and remember to tell jokes but not on them girls LOVE that

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A female reader, YinAndYang United States +, writes (8 March 2011):

YinAndYang agony auntHello,

I, myself, am around the age of 14 and female, so I think I would know about this. When trying to flirt with a girl, always make eye contact, and even the slightest bit of touch can make a girl go crazy. You could run your hand on her arm in the hallway when switching classes. And when it is vise-versa, try to stay calm, but if you DO have feelings this girl, try to flirt back with her, and NEVER act clingly or too touchy. There is to a limit a girl feels uncomfortable around men who are constantly touching them.

Feel free to crack a joke now and then, maybe even a cheesy one, but not too cheesy. Make sure if you are telling a cheesy joke, make sure that she knows you know it's cheesy. Try to make her laugh and smile, that can always brighten up a girl's day. I laugh whenever a guy in my class does one of his weird, voice things, but every girl is different.

Hope this helps!

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