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writes:hey.. when you're in a relationship when the girl is 14 and boy is 16 are you supposed to have "fun". like is it part of the relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): Your welcome. Don't ever do anything you don't want to. And it's not apart of the realtionship if YOU don't want it to be . Just because he is older doesn't mean you HAVE to do anything . It's your choice . Follow your heart . It never lies !
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes guys, i'm talking about sexual stuff. but thanks. i'm just confused because he's telling me it's part of the relationship.. and i don't really want it but he's older so i guess he does. but we've talked about it and he says it's alright if i don't want it.. but really, thank you all for the help. xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): If by 'fun' you mean fun but not sex.. then I think that it's ok as long as what it's what you both want to do. You should never let yourself feel pressurised into doing anything!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): Depends what you idea of "fun" is . if it's what I think it is the if you want it to be apart of the realtionship. And you and your bf have the same feelings for each other then why not ? But if you don't want it to be then don't let it get that way .... Don't be pressured to do ANYTHING you don't feel comfortable with and vice versa don't pressure him either. You are a little young but hey your a bug girl too. Old enought to make your own descions but not old enough to move out huh? lol I'm in the same spot. I'm 15 he's 16 and wanna have "fun" but not quite sure....
Be careful if you do decide to do anything . I hope the fun I'm thinking of is the fun your thinking of cuz if not then this was a long uneeded reply.... lol
I hope this helped ....atleast a lil bit ....
message me anytime and keep me updated !!!
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