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writes: Hi everyone if you dated a girl then you's broke it off as your male friend was then dating your ex, you couldn't see him as a friend anymore could you? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): still a friend, but a good friend. he should have asked u first on ur feelings or thoughts.
but hey she may be trying to make u jelous by dating him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): I think it depends on the circumstances. If you told your friend that you were still into this girl and that you did not want to break up with her, but you were no longer together, I think he should wait until the two of you resolved your feelings for eachother.
However you state here that YOU broke up with this girl, and then your friend asked her out. I don't think that is unfair if the two of them truly hit it off and want to see where things will go between them, it has nothing to do with you really, I am sure their intention was not to make you jealous or hurt your feelings.
I suggest you just talk to your friend and feel him out about the whole situation, I think it would show class and maturity on your part to tell your friend that you are not mad at him for dating your ex, but maybe you could just say that you are surprised that he is. In other words be a bigger person, of course it may hurt a little bit to see him with her for awhile, but if you truly wanted the relationship with the girl to end, then you should be able to get past this with your male friend, chances are this friendship of yours will out last a relationship with the girl even his relationship with her.
Good luck with it.
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