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writes:A question to men: If you cheat on your wife or girlfriend and the relationship ends how do you feel about the woman you cheated on, do you think about her, do you feel bad or guilty for what you did. How do you deal with the betrayal of her trust? My man cheated on me and now won't even talk to me, do you men feel bad for what you do to a woman by cheating?Male replies only please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): Im ashamed to admit this, but I cheated on an ex girlfriend in my late teens and I lied to her about it. Not just the once either. It made me sick to my soul and I never felt so bad in my life! I did it again, I dont know why I did, I thought that the pain wouldnt get any worse, and I suppose it didnt, for me. I just felt so ashamed and awful that I could never look at my better half in the same way again. I loved her and I was stupid! I have had two long term relationships since and have never even thought of straying or even came close to flirting past what would be acceptable. I will always regret what I did and she still doesnt know about it but I will never forget how I betrayed her and I would urge anyone not to stray, no matter how bad they think their relationship is at the time. What I can tell you though is that if your ex has a conscience, then he should feel so guilty that he cant face you.
I still have feelings for my ex I cheated on. I havent seen her in about 6 years and I know she is with someone else now. I hope that her partner is faithful to her and I trully hope she has found happiness. I did not deserve her and I learnt the hard way that cheating is the lowest of the low. Not all men will cheat, and also someone who has cheated in the past will not necessarily cheat in the future.
Dont let what he did spoil your trust in future relationships.
I'm sorry that it happened to you and I'm sure you'll find a man you deserve.
J
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