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writes:Please someone help, I am in so much trouble, And I hope I can get the answer in the next couple of days... Okay, I'm 14. You know how most teens like to hide their relationship from their parents? Well I'm one of them, and if my parents find out that I have a boyfriend they will freak. And I might possibly loose my head. But, me and my 14 year old boyfriend want to get together at his house, play some video games, cuddle not such a big thing to most people. well it is to me. I want to go hang out with him and not do anything wrong. But my dad just told me no, and that me and him can some other time. But then he told me he wanted to meet my "friends" parents so he would feel better about leaving me at my bf's house for a couple hours. Well here's the problem,My bf's parents know I'm dating my bf and they're okay with it.My parents don't know at all!!! So, I'm afraid his parents will tell my dad that me and my bf are dating. And I'm super terrified of that. (as u can tell) Well my question is,How do I get to go over to my boyfriends house to hang out with him and when my dad goes to talk to his parents, that my dad doesn't find out me and him are dating. I know this is a bit hard, but I need an answer. My bf is my best friend for life. And i want to see him without my dad finding out we're dating. please please please help ;_;
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): I needed help 2.. They will find out some way some how.. It's better for them to come from you and as soon as possible.. I've experiened this and trust me. It pays off to just tell them... Good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): I went through the same thing as you. If I could do it all over again I would tell my parents. If your dad were to find out, he's most likely going to be very disappointed. He may even find it hard to get his trust back in you. But I would try to talk to my dad and see if you guys can work something out.
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reader, Dark_Storm  +, writes (18 June 2009):
 np hun xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLmbo, thanks, haha Dark Storm I think you're answer is da besttttt. Teehee thankz.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): Stop hiding it, it'll only make your dad sadder because you didnt trust him enough to tell him. Trust me your dad would rather find out from you that you have a bf and not from his parents. Just tell your dad you're thinking about dating him and let him meet the damn parents it'll work out.
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reader, Dark_Storm +, writes (13 June 2009):
what is wrong with inviting your bf round to your house to "hang out", then your dad can get to know your bf . . . and then take it from there gradually breaking your dad into the possibility of you having a bf. but please see your fathers concerns and respect them as far as you possibly can.
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