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*acky118
writes:I have this friend that keeps causing me trouble, She always told me to wait for her,(she takes as slow as she can) becuase of that I keep getting told off by my teachers for being late to lessons. If I don't do what she says, she gets in a tamtrum before walking off and telling a teacher. What should I do??
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reader, Jacky118 +, writes (3 February 2008):
Jacky118 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for the advice, I'll try it.
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reader, Jugurtha  +, writes (2 February 2008):
You need to stick up for yourself. Good friends won't want to get you into trouble, and will understand the reasons why you can't faff about when you need to get to class.The next time your friend throws a wobbly, tell her not to be so immature and selfish. Just because you like to get to class on time and not get into trouble doesn't mean you're not a good friend to her, and that she isn't being a good friend to you.When this happens, she will be surprised and hurt, and will probably be a bit mean to you. After she has had some time to think about what you've said, talk to her again about it. If she still can't see your point of view, forget her as a friend - she is a bad apple who will seek to manipulate and control you.
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