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writes:theres a guy i like and ive liked him for about 2 months but he already has a girl friend what should i do? ill do any thing to be with him! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010): leave him alone, he is not yours to take. i understand then its hard when you have feelings for that person but he already has a girlfriend, and it would be terrible of you to try it with him while he is taken. maybe in the future he will be single, but until then find someone who is free and single.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010): Leave him be if he has a girlfriend. If he can be stolen, he could be stolen from you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010): If he likes you enough, NOT just as a sex toy whilst having a relationship, he will do the right thing and end it the right manner with his present girlfriend, that is called integrity!
Just remember people don't change, IF he does consider having some kind of relationship with you whilst being with his girlfriend, trust me, he will do the same with you, if he sees someone else a couple of months down the line he fancies too.
So if you want him, let him know you like him by all means, but make it clear, you are selective, and you won't become a mistress, someone he hides away, or can't be open about, and can't see at weekends when he's out with his GIRLFRIEND.. That also shows you have integrity too, and consider yourself worth more than just a undercover fling!
Good luck!
Jilly x
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 June 2010):
If he has a girlfriend, then let him go. You don't want to end up with a bad reputation as a woman who steals boyfriends, and you don't want to lose your dignity by chasing around after him and looking desperate. You need to remember your reputation. You don't want to lose it by making a mistake now. He has a girlfriend, and really that means you can't have him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010): im in the same situation and this might not be the best advice but if he likes you back you should go for it and be with him even if he has a girlfriend. i know that sounds bad but you never know you could be happy with how it turns out.
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