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30-35,
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writes:I'm going through my teenage years and sometimes i find it VERY hard to cope with all the "stuff" going on.I ave had trouble in the past with relatinships and i find it quite upsetting that i can't talk to my parents about it. I have tried but,but Mum usually gets in a strop with me for inturupting "Emmerdale" and she tells my Dad EVERYTHING!!! I told my Dad ages ago that one of my exes asked for sex,and he has never liked him,even though he is my mate,which i understand.But he seems to think i'm easily lead and has "the talk" about me having sex and getting pregnant with my ex almost every week everytime i try to talk about HIM(he is now my friend) or any of my boy mates or boyfriends.I would LOVE for my Dad to just STAY OUT of my love life unless i want to talk about it...BUT when i DO want to talk about it,he makes me feel like a slag and it's making me feel really guilty and down about myself even though i know it's not true. He seems to think that EVERY guy he sees me with is my boyfriend,To be honest most of them ARE...But i'm to scared to tell him that now...PLZ HELP ME!!!ALL I WANT IS TO BE ABLE TOT ALK TO MY PARENTS ABOUT PROBLEMS O THINGS I'M UPSET WITH WITHOUT FEELING LIKE A SLAG OR LIKE I'M DOING SOMETHING VERY WRONG..It's got to the point now that it's destroying my relationships because i'm scared my Dad will cum round the corner and we will have to talk about not having sex AGAIN.it's sooo annoying,it's just an INNOCENT relationship ...but i'm to scared to tell him:((In case your wondering,i'm a typical Daddys girl i want him to know everything that goes on with me,and met my bfs n stuff)
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reader, betty backstabber +, writes (8 August 2008):
 Put it this way, i doubt you would prefer it if your parents took no interest in your life at all and if they didn't care for you. When i was your age i was really lucky because my parents weren't over bearing with things like this, but they still cared for me a lot and whenever i wanted to go out they would make sure i did this, this and this which i thought was really lame at the time, but now looking back i know all they ever had was my best interests at heart. It may seem now like your dad is your biggest problem in life but trust me when you get older you realise there's a lot worse things and you'd actually do anything for your dads comfort in situations. I'm a daddys girl too and to be honest, he's the best man in my life and the only one thats never let me down.
I suggest you talk to him if its really getting you down. Tell him that you think you're old enough and mature enough to deal with relationships and your wise enough to use protection if you ever were to have sex.
He just cares about you because he knows that generally boys around your age only have one thing on the mind and he doesn't want to see his little girl upset, which is sweet. You'll be just fine, i'm sure he'll come round eventually, its just hard for your parents to accept that their little girl is growing up.
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