I watched my ex friend with benefits beat his wife! Why would he do this?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I found myself in a situation I never been in a few days ago. Someone I had a fwb relationship for a few months and I stopped it last month came to my house. We remain friends still but I know that this maybe an issue now. He showed up at my house w/out me knowing out of nowhere and I thought maybe from the last time we seen eachother it would be to pick up his stuff he has at my house. I obviously made it clear I was over the benefits part when he knew I slept with someone else and I even tell him! I just want to remain friends but that day he showed up its like he wants back what we had. We haven't seen or talked to eachother all month and he just asked me questions to see who or where and what I've been doing since. I just told him the truth about it all and that he should go back home to his kids and bm. That's what fathers do and I think I stressed it more than once so the night ended on a bad note. Anyway he was w/his family and we went to do something in which I was supposed to come home after and that didn't happen and I ended up at his moms house w/his babys mother and her 3 kids from him. Basically he took me there for a reason or reasons and I'm still trying to figure that out myself! It was so awkward and uncomfortable for me. He degraded her all night in front of me and physically abused her constantly. It tore me apart because she took it and kept telling him how much she's in love w/him and all. She acted as a obediant child or dog in my eyes. In return he did all this where I was sitting purposely and it just messed me up badly. I don't know what type of point he was trying to get across to me but it made me want to hurt him! I never seen him to be like that and for him to show me love after he treated her like dirt just was bs! Why do you think he did this? Besides the fact that he does drugs and so does his family. The babys mother doesn't tho...

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