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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm the original poster of the question about my emotional boyfriend going too fast and that I need to end it.Many seemed confused or to read between the lines and I just wanted to make a few things clear. He isn't a psycho, but perhaps a little needy. He had a broken family growing up and he's very into the idea of having a good family of his own in the future. He may be a good man, but he's not good for me. I'm 19, he's 24 and yet I have the feeling that in many ways he still needs to grow up more and my goals right now don't include marriage yet.I was thinking of explaining why we need to separate in a letter, since he wrote me a letter and he's expecting a letter back. Is that a good idea or should I say it in person? Reply to this Question
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reader, woodsc21 +, writes (26 September 2007):
I really think it would be better in person. Sometimes writing letters makes it hard to tell emotion, and if he knows that you love and maybe care for him then it won't make it hard because he knows he isn't alone. But honestly have you tried talking to him and explaining it to him. Guys are often clueless to how a woman feels and we need to be told things sometimes. Try and explain your problem and how you feel about what he's doing to push you away. Sometimes people can suprise you and maybe he is what you may be looking for.
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