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Women: When I split w/ her, she said she hated me and never loved me! What should I do? Should I try to talk to her?

Q.   Ok well. I guess this is an update from my previous question. But I did break up with my girlfriend and it didn't go very well.. She basically says she hates me, she never loved me, she was desperate, and basically everything she says to me is ...

A.   26 September 2007: Well. Right now I think she is too young and immature for a relationship. See her ex bf Zach treated her badly. He would hit her and abuse her and just toy with her mind. And every guy she dated till me treated her like crap. I was the first guy she ... (read in full...)

My f*ck buddy mentioned us having an exclusive relationship! What's going on?

Q.   I need a guys opinion for this one, please. I have this guy, we were fuck buddies or at least thats what we still are meant to be but we dont have sex any more. Ive known him a year but from june-august I didnt see him as I went to austria for a fe...

A.   26 September 2007: It means that he wants to take your alls friendship/relationship past the sex only stage. He cares for you, and maybe during your alls time having sex feels that he loves you. He most likely wants to date you and wants to know how you feel about ... (read in full...)

I'm the only one who calls and texts in our relationship! Should I stop to see if he'll actually initiate the communication?

Q.   Okay so i've been seeing a guy for the last 2 months. We get along really well and have alot in common. My problem is he doesn't call, or initiate text msgs... but will always pick up and talk, or text me staright back when i initiate the comm...

A.   26 September 2007: Maybe he doesn't want to seem needy and clingy so he wants you to initiate conversation. I know I was like this for a while, because I didn't want to annoy her or push her away. He likes you texting and calling him so when you do talk he has no ... (read in full...)

He called his ex twice behind my back - how can I trust him again?

Q.   i've been with my boyfriend for a year and 8 1/2 months and i been having trouble trusting him because he called his ex-girlfriend twice behind my back and i found out about it what can i do to trust him again???...

A.   26 September 2007: Don't get jealous. Do you have any suspicions that he is cheating on you? Jealousy is a main problem that ends relationships. Do you trust him? Talk to him about it, they may just be friends. Let him know how you feel.... (read in full...)

I was thinking of explaining why we need to separate in a letter - is that a good idea?

Q.   I'm the original poster of the question about my emotional boyfriend going too fast and that I need to end it. Many seemed confused or to read between the lines and I just wanted to make a few things clear. He isn't a psycho, but perhaps a little n...

A.   26 September 2007: I really think it would be better in person. Sometimes writing letters makes it hard to tell emotion, and if he knows that you love and maybe care for him then it won't make it hard because he knows he isn't alone. But honestly have you tried ... (read in full...)

She told me she needed a short break, should I call everything off or wait to see what happens?

Q.   Ok. My girlfriend and I have been together for quite a while. I know that she's in love with me and I know that im in love with her. But yesterday she told me that she just needs a break. She told me that right now she's just really stressed out and ...

A.   23 September 2007: Ehh to hell with it. I ended it last night and she don't want anything to do with me at all. So now she pushed me so far away it really don't hurt me. I love and and I will miss her but im not dealing with all her immature teenage drama crap. Thanks ... (read in full...)

Is it fair to stay with the boy I'm with when I'm in love with my ex?

Q.   I was with a boy for a year and i fell in love with him but i made a mistake and ended it and now he wont take me back, its been 6 months since we broke up and iv tried everything to move on i'm even in a relationship right now but i cant stop ...

A.   22 September 2007: The guy above actually helped me out to.. Thanks.... (read in full...)

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