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I was having sex with a guy then it all went wrong...

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Question - (17 October 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi I went to have sex with a very gorgeous guy, it was going all ok, and then it went very wrong.. he put the condom on... and we started having sex... then he stopped.. and he started having problems with keeping it going and gettin the condom on properly... what is this all bout... is this my fault?

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A male reader, Passthrough United States +, writes (18 October 2008):

Passthrough agony auntYeah, condom difficulties plague guys even when erectile difficulties dont. Condoms can be too tight, foreskins make it difficult sometimes, condoms can be too loose...

Not that I have a vast library of personal experience, but I had alot of trouble with broken condoms until I went a size larger... Aside from being willing and able enough to do it, having the correct protection is critical to having fun :-D

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A female reader, thunderchild United Kingdom +, writes (17 October 2008):

thunderchild agony auntthere is some strange statistic which i cant remember, but it bangs on about guys not wearing the right size condoms if they are too small they risk splitting, too big they slide off...

so no it isnt your fault! dinny fret!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008):

Not your fault at all hunny! condoms can have this effect on a guy! also the condom size might have been wrong also the thickness! if it was to thick he wouldnt be able to feel much! try using a thinner one next time x

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A female reader, lolo89 United Kingdom +, writes (17 October 2008):

lolo89 agony auntno this is not your fault so don't blame yourself

he was probably just very nervous and lost his erection.

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