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writes: I have been with my bfriend for 2 years and dont know if there is any hope for our relationship as i wish to travel next year but he wants to get a flat and is not willing to wait. Should i put off travelling also i think he may be cheating any ideas on a good way to find out for sure? Ive just lost my last flat and job it would hurt to lose him to. Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): If you want to travel then go for it. I keep saying this but LIFE IS TOO SHORT!!! There are times in the future when you get older to get a flat and settle down. You are young - go out there and see the world not the walls of a flat!!
If he doesn't want to come then point out that it is his decision but you want to go and don't want to put it off any longer.
I put off a whole lot of things because of men and now it is too late! Don't do the same. Don't look back and think i wish i had done that as you are cleaning the flat on a wet miserable day. Go for it girl, i will back you.
Take care
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reader, Xena +, writes (27 November 2006):
i say go travelling and live your life as you want to, with or without him, if its meant to be he'll still be there when you get back home, and you never know u may meet someone out there anyway much more amazing and forget all about him, and if not and u get home and find that he's with someone else then it simply wasnt meantto be! i reallybelieve in true love even though it hasnt happened to me yet! but if its a good relationship and u probablyknow deepdown that he's not the one as u suspect he's cheating.. i say live your life and you sound very free spirited by the sounds of it, go and get it out of your system, i bet he will always be there when you get back anyway, and then its your choice as to whether or not u still want him then!! remember u'll have changed then and be more worldly with many new experiences, good luck girl xxx
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (27 November 2006):
 well there is signs of finding out like the distance but then that can also be coursed by stress exsetra, as well as not being able to stand being near you! and yet there are sneaky ways of finding out like following him or checking his mobile his mail exsetra. but i also think on the moveing away part if you really want to do it and he dont may be it is best you seperate maybe spending less time together for a while untill you get stronger will make it easier to brake it off with him! but i think once a mans mind is certain it will never be changed!
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