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*apajoey
writes:Hey im 16, and there is this girl that i really love at school more than anything in the world. There are a lot of things that make me think that i like her (We both play soccer, and in one of the games my toenail got ripped off and went to the E.R. for 3 hours and when i got back to my phone i was expecting like tons of missed calls and all there was was 1 new message from her asking if i was ok) and other times that i think that she really doesnt like me or she thinks im anoying or something (she has tried to end a couple of our text conversations by saying "ok ill see you tomorrow"). I wrote up a really sweet love letter that just tells me how she makes me feel and i mentioned how much that story above ment to me, but i think i want to tell her to her face. What should I do?
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reader, unluckyboy  +, writes (28 May 2008):
keep us updated with the outcome please
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reader, papajoey +, writes (28 May 2008):
papajoey is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell i guess today I found ot that she might like another guy and she hasn't really talked to me at school in a while. I guess i should wait a little while because shes probly gonna reject me and thats the last thing i want. And i did ask a few of her best friends if she liked me (thats how i found out about the guy) and they all said that you never know with a girl like her. And shes never had a boyfriend before cause her parents wouldnt allow her to date till she was 16. But thanks for the comments, i guess i should tell her instead of text.
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reader, unluckyboy +, writes (28 May 2008):
mate please don't tell her unless u can tell its obvious. I told my friend and of all went haywire. She didnt like me but she did try talk to me and get things normal but our conversations haven't been the same and its horrible feeling knowing the person u liked so much jus ended the dream in a few seconds with rejection! Its not worth it unless she gives u signs. People have different opinions this is mine from my experience. Mail me if u need some more hellp Gud luck
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reader, papajoey +, writes (27 May 2008):
papajoey is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry but the second sentence is supposed to say "There are a lot of things that make me think she likes me"
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reader, xxxxxhotstuffxxxxx +, writes (27 May 2008):
Awwww! Your feelings for her are really sweet but I suggest you take your time especially if shes a good friend of yours because if you tell her and if sadly she doesnt feel the same way it could destroy the great friendship that you have now. Try finding out if she likes you by asking your friends to ask her friends or by getting a friend to casually bring up the subject in a group conversation. If that doesnt work sit down and talk to her face to face instead of in a text message, email or letter. Dont be afraid to tell her your feelings and ask her out sometime but do give her time to think about it as relatonships cant be rushed. Best of luck. Keep us posted and lots of love.
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